fbpx

“There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper.” (Camille Paglia)

Obsession is a male tendency. It’s why boys are more likely than girls to addicted to video games or adult content. It also relates to why young men take stupid risks. And why you really only see male stalkers.

But this tendency can also be one of the greatest virtues. All the great men of history have been obsessed with something. When obsessed, a person naturally pushes through discomfort and generates the creative ideas that lead to exponential growth.

This episode explores how.

#brainwashyourself

Check out other episodes

Joseph Teskey: Attachment Theory

Powered by RedCircleAre you more ANXIOUS or AVOIDANT? How do you see Attachment Theory show up in how you relate? Attachment Theory is probably the most useful model for understanding out relationship tendencies. This convo is with Joseph Teskey, a psychotherapist...

109 5 1/2 Guiding Principles for a Man’s Life: My Personal Moral Code for Life Decisions

Last weekend a friend and I did a David Goggins-inspired challenge: 4km every 4 hrs for 48hrs. During it we had a lot of philosophical discussion and created personal morality. This episode shows the other side of "Breaking Social Constructions of Reality" episode--...

My 2nd Year in the Matriarchal Sex Cult

Powered by RedCircleMy second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc) I took some of the tactics I learned as a "party goer" and employed them as a "party thrower". In a sense I became a...

Marc Carlin: Hypnotic State

Powered by RedCircleMarc Carlin is a hypnotherapist from New York. We speak about the subconscious, building confidence, and hypnosis in persuasion. Get his free guide to Self-Hypnosis at MarcCarlin.com/Ruwan Check out other episodes

119 Orpheus Archetype: How to Integrate Your Romantic Side (without being cringe)

A lot of guys dissociate from their romantic side. So it ends up coming out in cringey ways. The best lessons on integrating this come from the Greek myth of Orpheus... Check out other episodes

Alexander Heyne: Modern Health Monk

Powered by RedCircleAlexander Heyne is the founder of ModernHealthMonk.com and MilkThePigeon.com. He is also a student of Chinese medicine, currently getting his doctorate. At the time of this interview he was just about to transition to med student life after years...

Paying for Women, Text Game, Sexual Performance Mindset, Sexual Shame

Powered by RedCircle1:32 Paying for women on dates, providing, screening gold-diggers, what to look for8:32 Text game, communication tempo, how to know what to text, subcommunication, leading vulnerability17:02 Sexual Performance Psychology23:34 Overcoming Shame Check...

On Dating Multiple Women, Open Relationships, and Growth as a Dude

Powered by RedCircleOne the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-driven, it's actually a great goal as it forces you to grow as man. Here's what you need to know. Check out...