Last week I coached a listener of the podcast on integrating the Dark Masculine archetype—
I invited him on the podcast to share his experience with overcoming shame and fear of rejection in intimacy. We also discuss what do when your needs seem to conflict with your woman’s needs, and how to respond to a woman’s past traumas.
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Chantel Quick: Backwards Feminism
by Ruwando | 14 August 2017 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleChantel Quick is a writer and coach and the founder of EarthBasedMom. She's also my girlfriend. We had this impromptu conversation on feminism after she observed on Facebook how some branches of Feminism are anti-feminine. Check out other...
104 On the Lover and Dark Feminine feat. Noelfry
Devotion, Bali, Night Kings feat. Summer Engman
by Ruwando | 8 May 2019 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleSummer is a photographer and all around creative cat. We used to host a radio show about dating in Brooklyn. Now we meet in various parts of the world and do radio-like things. In this episode Summer analyzes my relationship tendencies. We also...
Cycle and Sexual Wellbeing feat. Iris Josephina
by Ruwando | 3 April 2019 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleLet’s talk about women’s bodies. Iris Josephina (@cycleseeds) and I speak about the natural cycles, in bleeding, in birth, in society. Don’t think this is an episode for women only. If there’s one thing men who date women need to understand, it’s...
Rick & Morty & Archetypal Masculinity
by Ruwando | 5 May 2020 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleRick and Morty is one of the most popular TV shows due to great writing and clever plotlines. But one of the reasons for its diehard male fan base may be how the show demonstrates elements of the male psychodrama. In this episode, Ruwan discusses a...
113 Getting Off on Every Stroke (Existential Kink)
by Ruwando | 27 May 2021 | Episodes | 0 Comments
"Getting off on every stroke" is a skill of turning unpleasant experiences into enjoyable ones. On the one hand it's a nice metaphor for alchemizing suffering. On the other hand it's a literal physical skill. Carolyn Elliott described it in her book Existential...
Layne Cornell: Bipolar and Alive
by Ruwando | 30 November 2017 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleLayne Cornell is the founder of Bipolar and Alive. We talk about the cross of mental health and spirituality. I sought him out because I've been going through my own depression. He offers some great insight on the state of your mind....
A General Theory of Love, book discussion
by Ruwando | 9 November 2018 | Episodes | 0 Comments
Powered by RedCircleTim Jack and I discuss the limbic system, how your personality and thoughts regulate to other people, parental upbringing on your psychological profile, and tribal thinking. TRIGGER WARNING: We talk about politics. Check out other episodes