Nalaya Chakana: Daring to Love, Conscious Celibacy

Nalaya Chakana is an intimacy coach who helps people experience real love and connection. She and I met in Peru some years ago. I had to ask her about conscious celibacy because… well you’ll see.

Her Dare to Love course starts in September 2020. It’s for both men and women who want to find real intimacy.

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