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Dr. Cam Sepah: Dopamine Fasting, Maximus

Dr. Cam Sepah: Dopamine Fasting, Maximus

Powered by RedCircle Dr. Cam Sepah is a psychology, professor at UCSF Med School, and the founder of a number of startups including Maximus, a telehealth service for men’s psychological and physiological development. We speak about his Dopamine Fasting protocol,...
Nalaya Chakana: On Making Love, Co-Variant Polarity

Nalaya Chakana: On Making Love, Co-Variant Polarity

Powered by RedCircle Nalaya Chakana is my beloved. She’s also an intimacy coach and has been on the podcast before. We speak about maturing archetypes, dating, and a bit on our love story. (Don’t worry it’s not too sappy.) Join Nalaya’s...
Solving the Ambition/Acceptance Dilemma

Solving the Ambition/Acceptance Dilemma

Powered by RedCircle Should you “Go hard” or “Embrace where you’re at?” Each of these two impulses have a time when they are useful but also negative fallout.– Going hard gets results, but at the wrong time can lead to burn out....
How to Overcome Apathy

How to Overcome Apathy

Powered by RedCircle Apathy mutes your ability to experience life. It blocks you from enthusiasm, connection, creativity, and even knowing what to do with yourself. I speak about the root cause of apathy and the ONE thing that overcomes it. Btw, we’re trying a...
Independent Frames

Independent Frames

Powered by RedCircle Why don’t men like being told what to do? Some may call that “fragile masculinity” or some insecure need for dominance. But actually there are real consequences for the man and his relationships if he too frequently takes orders....
Mollie McGlocklin: Sleep is a Skill

Mollie McGlocklin: Sleep is a Skill

Powered by RedCircle The last few months I’ve realized how important sleep quality is for testosterone, and therefore energy, mood, strength, libido, and success in life. Mollie is the founder of Sleep is a Skill, a company and podcast that aims to optimize your...
Lover Archetype

Lover Archetype

Powered by RedCircle A lot of men lose their masculinity when they catch feelings for the feminine. (But it doesn’t have to be that way.) As voted on, and inspired by recent posts in the group, next live discussion is on maintaining polarity in relationship....
How to Deal with Women’s Anger

How to Deal with Women’s Anger

Powered by RedCircle If a woman you’re intimate with is throwing anger at you, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Actually, it might be a good sign. And an opportunity to deepen the relationship. However, many analytical guys mess it up…. In this...
Jack Donovan: The Way of Men

Jack Donovan: The Way of Men

Powered by RedCircle Jack Donovan is author of The Way of Men, Becoming a Barbarian, and A More Complete Beast. We speak about the tactical virtues of masculinity, honor cultures, male mythologies, polytheistic take on psychology, and even a little economics (kind...
Gnosis: Creating From No-Mindedness

Gnosis: Creating From No-Mindedness

Powered by RedCircle “Gnosis” is the name for a mental state that you’ve probably experienced before, if only accidentally. This state is a solution to anxiety and a way to “get out of your own way” in creating what you want. I share some...
On Loving Fearlessly

On Loving Fearlessly

Powered by RedCircle I recently spoke with a guy who realized that he walled up his heart to prevent sadness… but it also blocked him from feeling joy and real intimacy. How does one get over the fear of being heartbroken? Check out other episodes When Kali...
Christian Graugart (BJJ Globetrotter)

Christian Graugart (BJJ Globetrotter)

Powered by RedCircle Christian Graugart is the founder of BJJ Globetrotters, a community for people who travel and do jiu-jitsu. We speak about the tribal nature of humans (and its problems), his taoist-like philosophy, and of course, jiu-jitsu. Check out other...
Sarah Steel (Let’s Talk About Sects): Cult Psychology

Sarah Steel (Let’s Talk About Sects): Cult Psychology

Powered by RedCircle Sarah Steel is the host of Let’s Talk About Sects, a podcast about cults. I was on her show just recently in episode on OneTaste (premiers today). We talk about group social dynamics, the psychology of cult leaders and members, ethics, and...
Warrior Archetype

Warrior Archetype

Powered by RedCircle The Warrior Archetype is the set of testosterone-driven impulses that have a man develop his competence and courage. It’s also associated with aggression which is why it’s often attacked as “toxic masculinity”. This episode...
Why Commitment is a Masculine Virtue

Why Commitment is a Masculine Virtue

Powered by RedCircle “There is a lot of correlation between rough childhoods and fatherless homes. But there is also a negative effect on the FATHER shirking his responsibility.” Despite the fact that women are usually the ones raising the topic of...
Going Out On Your Shield: Embracing Failure

Going Out On Your Shield: Embracing Failure

Powered by RedCircle “Come back with your shield – or on it” ~ Spartan mothers to their sons before battle (according to Plutarch) Queen Gorgo says those words to Leonidas in the movie 300. Deontay Wilder referenced it in his willingness to be...
Dominance Hierarchies

Dominance Hierarchies

Powered by RedCircle Our Emotional-Territorial brain evolved to1) connect as social groups,2) determine place in the ‘dominance hierarchy’. Much of our self-esteem, locus of control, and ability to socialize comes down to the imprinting of the primitive...
Changing Your Filter on Reality

Changing Your Filter on Reality

Powered by RedCircle “Reality is a controlled hallucination” (Anil Seth) This episode explores the different layers of reality perception. The goals and vulnerabilities of the ‘Reason Circuit’, and how perception can be bent to intentionally...
Craig Parkin: Experiencing Wealth

Craig Parkin: Experiencing Wealth

Powered by RedCircle Craig Parkin is the author of Experiencing Wealth, a book on the psychology of deservedness (my interpretation). He and I met in Thailand. We’ve had a lot of fun conversations. This is one of them. Enjoy....
Breaking Social Construction of Reality

Breaking Social Construction of Reality

Powered by RedCircle Most of our perceptions of reality come from our social conditioning. Your recurrent states like confidence, connection, inner peace are often a result of your social (collective) programming. This discussion will cover how to *Break the Game* of...
Nicole Brenny: Psychomagic

Nicole Brenny: Psychomagic

  Powered by RedCircle Nicole Brenny is a vedic astrologer, YouTuber, and coach. She and I used to host a pirated radio show under the train tracks in Brooklyn. She recently did a “psychomagic” session on me a la the work of Alejandro Jodorowsky. It was...
Overcoming Cyclical Depression, Suicidal Impulses

Overcoming Cyclical Depression, Suicidal Impulses

Powered by RedCircle When I was 15 I tried to kill myself. Since then I have had cyclical depression. It’s been an ongoing journey that has led many beautiful things and various challenges. I’m sharing this with the hope that it helps other people....
Anish Patel: Feminine Cleanse

Anish Patel: Feminine Cleanse

Powered by RedCircle Anish Patel is a men’s coach who has worked with Dr. Robert Glover and others. He shares with me an interesting practice called the Feminine Cleanse for men to let go of limiting behavior in relating to women and their masculinity. Check out...
Self-Validation & Assigning Meaning to Goals

Self-Validation & Assigning Meaning to Goals

Powered by RedCircle On my weekend detox trip a friend had a powerful experience regarding self-validation. Check out other episodes Spiritual Death feat. Devin Ashmiel Divine by Ruwando | May 1, 2019 | Episodes | 0 CommentsPowered by RedCircleAshmiel is a healer and...
Nalaya Chakana: Daring to Love, Conscious Celibacy

Nalaya Chakana: Daring to Love, Conscious Celibacy

Powered by RedCircle Nalaya Chakana is an intimacy coach who helps people experience real love and connection. She and I met in Peru some years ago. I had to ask her about conscious celibacy because… well you’ll see. Her Dare to Love course starts in...
Dr. Harrison Schultz: On Anarchy, Deviance, and The Left

Dr. Harrison Schultz: On Anarchy, Deviance, and The Left

Powered by RedCircle Dr. Harrison Schultz is an activist and was a leader in Occupy Wall Street. He shared his views on the state of the world, economic solutions, and anarchy. Check out other episodes Karen Lorre: Chronic Pleasure by Ruwando | October 30, 2019 |...
Father Nature, King Archetype

Father Nature, King Archetype

Powered by RedCircle The King Archetype is the aspect of masculinity that expresses responsibility, fatherhood, and security. In modern society, many men are lacking expression in this archetype. In order to fully actualize, one must be able to access this aspect of...
Victoria Redbard: New Paradigm Intimacy

Victoria Redbard: New Paradigm Intimacy

Powered by RedCircle Victoria Redbard is a somatic sexologist and founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. We speak about polarity in society, sex magic, and integrating eros into life. Also, buttplugs for business. (Listen to find out what that means.)...
The Unshakable Abundance Reality

The Unshakable Abundance Reality

Powered by RedCircle Abundance and Scarcity are states of the psyche that affect our nervous systems, mental health, and ability to experience objective wealth (be it with money, love, or even inspiration). This episode breaks down The Abundance Model, a method of...
Antidotes to Nice Guy Syndrome

Antidotes to Nice Guy Syndrome

Powered by RedCircle Nice Guy Syndrome is a set of maligned characteristics that have been conditioned into most men to some degree. It usually shows up in dating, relationships, and work. For a man to be personally fulfilled, but also useful to others he needs to get...
Michael Pariser: Nice Guy Hero’s Journey

Michael Pariser: Nice Guy Hero’s Journey

Powered by RedCircle Michael Pariser, PsyD is a therapist and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey, a guide that takes men through a process of overcoming ‘Nice Guy Syndrome’. In this episode we break down male psychological tendencies,...
Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani: Tantra Meets BDSM

Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani: Tantra Meets BDSM

Powered by RedCircle Laurie Handlers and Om Rupani teach Tantra Meets BDSM, a class for real intimate polarity (something many are particularly challenged by in quarantine). We speak about sexual archetypes, creating trust, and topics critical to real intimacy. Check...
Dark Masculine: How To Overcome Sexual Shame

Dark Masculine: How To Overcome Sexual Shame

Powered by RedCircle Internalized shame is a killer of self-esteem, libido, and a person’s spirit. More than ever before, collective morality shames authentic masculinity. The ‘Dark Masculine’ is the archetype of removing shame and returning to true...
Reality Dominance

Reality Dominance

Powered by RedCircle Ruwan discusses Reality perception in this live discussion. Check out other episodes Individuation vs. Collective Unconscious by Ruwando | January 7, 2020 | Episodes | 0 CommentsPowered by RedCircleThis episode was inspired by some synchronistic...
Ivan Zoric: Mixed Movement Arts

Ivan Zoric: Mixed Movement Arts

Powered by RedCircle Ivan Zoric is a movement mechanic and founder of Momentum Phangan, a movement gym/placespace in Koh Phangan. We speak about his 4 Corners philosophy for strength and mobility training. Ivan’s Youtube:...
Mantak Chia: MultiOrgasmic Man, Universal Healing Tao

Mantak Chia: MultiOrgasmic Man, Universal Healing Tao

Powered by RedCircle Mantak Chia is the grandmaster of the Taoist lineage of energy cultivation. He is the author of over 50 books including The MultiOrgasmic Man. In this episode, we speak about the Tao, spirit, energy cultivation. For the video version of this...
John Gray: Beyond Mars and Venus, Hormones, Polarity

John Gray: Beyond Mars and Venus, Hormones, Polarity

Powered by RedCircle On the threshold of my recent breakup, a friend lent me the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. At first, I resisted at it. I knew the book. I remember my mom watching the book’s author, John Gray, on Oprah when I was 7 years old....
Marc Lewis, Ph.D.: The Biology of Desire

Marc Lewis, Ph.D.: The Biology of Desire

Powered by RedCircle 2012 introduced me to the darkness of the unconscious. I fell in love with a hardcore drug addict. I didn’t understand addiction. I thought she just had an issue with willpower. All I knew was that she possessed a joie de vivre, a passion...
Carolyn Elliott: Existential Kink

Carolyn Elliott: Existential Kink

Powered by RedCircle Carolyn Elliott is the author of Existential Kink, a method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don’t. She and I met in OneTaste many moons ago. We talk about ‘practical magick’ (tinkering with the unconscious...
Rick & Morty & Archetypal Masculinity

Rick & Morty & Archetypal Masculinity

Powered by RedCircle Rick and Morty is one of the most popular TV shows due to great writing and clever plotlines. But one of the reasons for its diehard male fan base may be how the show demonstrates elements of the male psychodrama. In this episode, Ruwan discusses...
Prometheus Rising: 4 Neural Circuits of Consciousness

Prometheus Rising: 4 Neural Circuits of Consciousness

Powered by RedCircle Drawing from Robert Anton Wilson’s Prometheus Rising, we dig into Timothy Leary’s Eight Circuit Model of Consciousness. The first four circuits (bio-survival, emotional-territorial, semantic, and socio-sexual) are present in all...
Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing

Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing

Powered by RedCircle Lt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. His first book greatly influenced Ruwan when he was an officer select in the US Marine Corps. We...
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Dr. Steve G. Jones: Is Astral Projection a Thing?

Powered by RedCircle Dr. Steve Jones is a clinical hypnotherapist and has been on TV a lot. I brought him on to speak on Astral Projection: the subjective act of leaving the body. He shares some hows and whys along with some interesting takes on reality. Free hypnosis...
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Father Wound & Secondary Father

Powered by RedCircle The Father Wound are insecurities that come from the shortcomings of our primary role model. Many myths show slaying a father figure (i.e. Luke Skywalker vs. Darth Vader) because it represents a man being able to separate from his paternal shadow....
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Brett Jones: StrongFirst, Kettlebell Training

Powered by RedCircle Brett Jones is the chief instructor at StrongFirst, accomplished strongman. We speak about strength from the cellular level all the way up to the mindset required to apply force. Aside from the useful strength tips, this episode is chock full of...
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Completing Psychological Adolescence

Powered by RedCircle How to evolve out of ‘boy psychology’: How individual consciousness correlates with collective, manic pixie dream girl/great mother, dark triad traits and completing cycles, Freud’s sexual theory. For the video version of this...
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Matt Bowden: Adventures with Drugs and Manifestation

Powered by RedCircle Matt Bowden is a musician and visionary who created safe alternatives to drugs in New Zealand. He is featured in a VICE documentary on the legal drug trade. We speak about intuition, spirituality, and of course, drugs. Check out other episodes...
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Om Rupani: Masculine Resilience

Powered by RedCircle Om is a D/S instructor who has been on the podcast quite a few times. I recently watched the Red Pill documentary and wanted to speak with him on the male response to hardship. Om has a few workshops this year and will put up the dates as they are...
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Cult Psychology Principles and Tactics

Powered by RedCircle We speak about the Dark Arts… How cults/advertisers/propangandists shift collective reality; How to recognize and avoid unconscious negative influence; How to use it positively in leadership, relationships, family, and social situations....
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Jordan Luke Collier: Subjective vs. Objective Beauty

Powered by RedCircle Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata. We philosophize on beauty as a heuristic for navigating life. Check out other episodes Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani: Tantra Meets BDSM by Ruwando | July 15, 2020 | Episodes | 0 CommentsPowered by...
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The Virtue of Male Aggression

Powered by RedCircle Article from early 2018. This one got me kicked off The Good Men Project for being “too volatile.” Check out other episodes Michael Pariser: Nice Guy Hero’s Journey by Ruwando | July 16, 2020 | Episodes | 0 CommentsPowered by...
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Christina Berkley: Orgasm, Money, Potatoes

Powered by RedCircle “Money is like potatoes,” she said. Christina Berkley helps coaches build stunning practices and edge-walkers live stunning lives. I met her that time I was in a matriarchal sex cult where she was once a lead instructor. Her journey is a synthesis...
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Reshaping Emotional Patterns, Trauma

Powered by RedCircle One of the most frustrating things is when you intend to do one thing, but end up doing the opposite. This happens a lot in emotionally-charged situations like in dating, intimacy, or creative purpose. Much of our behavior can seem like...
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Matt Cone: The Abundance Model

Powered by RedCircle Matt Cone is a philanthropist and philosopher. I met Matt on a retreat in Thailand 2 years ago. He shared something called ‘The Abundance Model’, a philosophy and system for dealing with money. I was a bit skeptical at first, but...
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Iain Armstrong: Taoism and Kung Fu

Powered by RedCircle Iain Armstrong is a Kung Fu master in Thailand and the lineage holder of Nam Yang Kung Fu originated in Shaolin. We speak on Taoism, the mind-body connection, and understanding ‘qi’ in relation to physical fitness and longevity. Check out his work...
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Individuation vs. Collective Unconscious

Powered by RedCircle This episode was inspired by some synchronistic events: a coaching conversations, ponderings on my new tattoo, and an essay by Carl Jung. Check out other episodes Dr. Robert Glover: Nice Guy Syndrome, Archetypal Masculinity by Ruwando | May 22,...
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Sex Transmutation, Explained

Powered by RedCircle Napoleon Hill’s term for “channeling sexual energy” is often talked about, but rarely in a way that is practical. In this video I speak on a workable model for how to use “sexual energy” towards well-being and...
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On Fearing Beauty, How to Handle Involuntary Response

Powered by RedCircle Men often fear beauty because it puts us into an involuntary state– one where we can’t easily control our emotions or reactions. But the involuntary state is what makes life worth living… Check out other episodes Frank Perri:...
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Your Personal Development is a Genre of Entertainment

Powered by RedCircle Your Hero’s Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that is your life. Check out other episodes Sex Transmutation, Explained by Ruwando | December 31,...
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Hacking Synchronicity:

Powered by RedCircle “Reality is a like a woman. She either moves towards you or runs away from you, depending on how you engage with it.” ‘Synchronicity’ is a term coined by psychologist Carl Jung and often misused by spiritual folk. But even...
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Leslie Selene: Witchcraft and Initiation

Powered by RedCircle Leslie Selene is a spiritual medium, meditation teacher, and author. She was introduced to me many years ago as a ‘Witch Doctor’ when I was in a cult… Many things she told me back then finally clicked in my head five years later. We speak...
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Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research

Powered by RedCircle Melanie Curtain is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships. She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance...
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Summer Engman & Micah Rodrigues: Devotion in Relationship

Powered by RedCircle Summer is my former radio co-host, business partner, and a long time friend. Last time she was on the podcast (Ep. 050) she shared some enlightening perspectives on relationships. Now she’s engaged, so I had her and her fiance on to talk about it...
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My 2nd Year in the Matriarchal Sex Cult

Powered by RedCircle My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc) I took some of the tactics I learned as a “party goer” and employed them as a “party thrower”. In a...
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Solla Pizzuto: Taoist Sexual Secrets

Powered by RedCircle Solla Pizzuto teaches about healing and sexuality from both Taoist and Tantric perspectives. She coordinates the Meeting of the Masters retreat in Chiang Mai, Thailand (which is what had me move to Thailand 2 yrs ago.) She and I speak on Taoist...
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My First Year in a Matriarchal Sex Cult

Powered by RedCircle I was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20’s. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, teaching me a foundational knowledge of the psyche that I couldn’t have gotten in any...
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Masculinity and Failure: How Men Should Use Hardship

Powered by RedCircle Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, but not in the same way as women. The main difference has to with challenges, winning, and failure.  Understanding this is the key for men to grow and become better men....
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Karen Lorre: Chronic Pleasure

Powered by RedCircle Karen Lorre teaches meditation and coaches people to healing through pleasure. She speaks with me on how to alchemize bad emotions, how materialization really works, and shares some anecdotes about Hugh Hefner during her time as a Playboy...
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Hacking Abundance: How Giving Actually Creates More

Powered by RedCircle Abundance and Generosity are not the same thing. Abundance, despite all the vagueries the ‘Law of Attraction’ promotes, there is a procedure by which you can change how you relate to material resources. Brittnee Bond and I share about...
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Olive Persimmon: The Coitus Chronicles

Powered by RedCircle Olive Persimmon is the author of The Coitus Chronicles: My Quest for Sex, Love, and Orgasms, where she documents her wild adventures in trying to get her mojo back. I’m in the book (though my name has been changed so I wouldn’t sue her)....
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Jacqueline Buckingham: Huge Pussy Life

Powered by RedCircle Jacqueline Buckingham is an actress and entrepreneur, among other things. She’s the creator and star of The Box with Jacqueline on Amazon Prime (season 2 coming soon). She was also in Half Baked. She’s also driving an important movement involving...
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Feminine Emotional Realities, Mother Complexes

Powered by RedCircle Weekly Q&A in http://forum.masculineunderground.com 2:49 Jordan Peterson and Camille Paglia misunderstanding Feminine Conflict5:10 Subjective vs Objective Reality perception11:47 What Patriarchy actually is Agriculture’s effect on sexual...
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Dating Your Partner’s Archetypes

Powered by RedCircle When you date someone, you’re also dating their archetypes. Carl Jung coined the term “Quaternio” for the 6 archetypal relationships that exist when two people get together.  Here I break down how you relate to the unconscious...
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Brianda Agramonte: Super Trip Talk

Powered by RedCircle Brianda is the host of Super Trip Talk, a podcast on the Gotham Podcast Studio network. We talk psychedelics, mental health, dating, sexuality, and spiritual semi-paranormal stuff. This is kind of Part 1 of a two part convo. (Part 2 is on her...
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How to Handle Women’s Emotional Reality

Powered by RedCircle ‘The Masculine’ (testosterone-fueled characteristics) exists to handle material reality. Men who don’t recognize the Sunday being weak partners and don’t give women the opportunity to be women. If you want to create the...